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Old 07-19-2007, 09:15 AM   #1
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We lost a dear friend on Tuesday and just found out about it last night. We don't know the cause of death. He was at work and just passed out. He was only 29.

He has a wife and 5 year old son. I'd like to take something to them today. What would be appropriate? I would like something that isn't needed to be in a hot oven since it's been so icky and humid out.

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Old 07-19-2007, 09:19 AM   #2
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ETA: I'd like something that doesn't involve returning dishes, either. She will have enough on her mind right now.
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Old 07-19-2007, 09:34 AM   #3
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Im sorry to hear that someone so young has passed like this. My condolences to you on the loss of a dear friend.

I would consider taking a deep dish quiche that can be eaten with a salad, a complete salad with a meat ingredient like Cobb/Thai Beef/Chicken etc, a cold cut platter with a couple of salads, some homebaked cookies/cake in an airtight container, even a large disposable platter of fresh sandwiches would be welcome for sure.
I am assuming there would be fridge space for the above except cookies.
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Old 07-19-2007, 09:38 AM   #4
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My condolences!!! That is so horrible to lose someone that young.

There is no food that would be inappropriate. Anything they like to eat would be a good thing to bring. Soups, stews, sandwiches, salads, or just about anything else. I would have said casseroles or lasagna or something like that, but then they would have to use the oven.

I would try to make things you know the 5 year old will like so they won't have to fight with him to eat.
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Old 07-19-2007, 09:39 AM   #5
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Sorry, I posted before I saw the note on dishes. You could always buy them so throw away dishes and plastic ware, just enough to get them through this time.
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Old 07-19-2007, 09:47 AM   #6
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I'm sorry to hear about your friend, Angie. I think meatballs would be good, and they could be heated in a microwave.
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Old 07-19-2007, 09:59 AM   #7
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I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. Others have given you good suggestions. Basic food is always appreciated especially when there is a child involved.
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Old 07-19-2007, 10:05 AM   #8
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A seven layer salad would be good to take, as it can sit in the fridge for a while, and most everyone likes it. The little boy can pick out the things he likes, like bits of broccoli or cherry tomatoes. I have a really good recipe, if you need it.
The tray of cold cuts and cheeses is a great idea...be sure to take bread to go with. Or, if you want to spend a little more, a spiral cut ham would be nice.
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Old 07-19-2007, 10:49 AM   #9
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This is something no one knows, when it is our time to go. Being so fast is certainly more painful to take. Also the fact that he was so young. Why? Words just don't make this any better. Please accept my sympathy on the loss of your friend and try to be there for the family when they need you. Our lives are all too fragile.
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Old 07-19-2007, 10:55 AM   #10
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just a "food package" with some deli items and salads and a rotisserie chicken and some bread would be thoughtful and tasty.
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