I would definitely pick and choose based on what your wife likes. My hubby knows me well enough to know that I would reeeeealllllllyyyy love one of two things:
A. Eggs Benedict with a side of fruit (melon, strawberries, whatever else looks fresh at the grocery store). Cook my eggs runny
and give me plenty of hollandaise--special day
B. Western Omelet with a side of old-fashioned toast (put the pats of "real" butter on the bread and then broil it). I will eat toaster toast, but I love the old-fashioned toast from the broiler--special day
Just think about what she would make for herself is she wasn't faced with pleasing everyone else. And......
you must be a pretty good hubby because you are thinking about and planning a nice Mother's Day before the night before