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Old 11-05-2004, 05:22 PM   #11
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I am glad you got it all worked out. I was going to suggest you make orange cake from a boxed yellow cake mix.

All you do is add canned mandarin oranges and melted butter rather than oil to the mix.

Then you make a quick glaze with the orange juice left in the can, powdered sugar, a pinch of salt, and a couple of orange sections [a little rum would not hurt].

But if banana bread is easier for you.....go for it.

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Old 11-05-2004, 06:00 PM   #12
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Originally Posted by kitchenelf
ok - this looks like what I'm doing:

Tuscan Vegetable Soup w/beans and fresh Parmesan

My prosciutto/water-packed mozzarella/roasted pepper/mesclun mix paninis

baguette w/goat cheese, pesto, and pepper strips

Then chicken salad with slices of ciabatta or it can be eaten plain.

Then after the viewing the finger food will come out -

I've got to find something sweet - I'll run across something - I have tons of bananas - I could just get some eggs, sour cream, and do banana bread cut in chunks - YEP, that's what I'll do.
Im sorry for your friends loss Your menu sounds perfect. When you have time I'd love your tuscan soup recipe.

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Old 11-05-2004, 06:07 PM   #13
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Kitchenelf..I am also sorry aout your friends loss..you are oviously a very good friend...she is lucky to have you. Your menu sounds perfect.
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Old 11-06-2004, 12:20 AM   #14
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You are a great friend to do all that.That is a lot for one (little) person to do.My hats off to you.
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Old 11-06-2004, 01:19 AM   #15
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Sorry to be so late in on this thread...and obviously sorry on both the tasking and the reason...

On the other hand, if its "light" or "lite" lunch you are after, why not go to the bakery and get umpteen dozen "buns"?

a Jar or two of Mayo or Miracle Whip, in a nice display, a few jars of sandwich pickles, Gherkins, etc, a variety of thing sliced cheeses, thin sliced onions of some variety, an assortment of mustards...well, you get the point!...

While its true that your friend has just lost a family member of enormous importance, is it not also true that they asked of "light"/"lite"...? Okay, maybe bowls of clam chowder, in addition to this...

I don't believe there's a big thing to produce a "dessert spectacular" in additionto this...

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Old 11-06-2004, 04:26 AM   #16
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You didn't say if this luncheon is being held in a hall or at home. Not too many people can sit 25 people for lunch and I would go with Lifter's suggestions.

In my hometown, it has always been customary for friends, neighbors, etc. to bring food to the bereaved's home and one usually ends up with enough food to feed an army. So, if it is at home, you may only have to supplement with a few things.

My condolences regarding your friends loss. It is always hard to lose a parent.
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Old 11-06-2004, 07:08 AM   #17
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You will be on all of our minds today, Elf. Peace be with you all.
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Old 11-06-2004, 08:12 AM   #18
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hey elfie, sorry about the loss in your clan. god bless his soul....
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Old 11-06-2004, 04:57 PM   #19
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I just thought I'd drop in really quick. Lunch was great - in my heart of hearts I just couldn't go with the standard "funeral" meat/deli platter. I stewed 2 chickens all night, made chicken salad - sliced a baguette for that and used it also for the goat cheese, pesto, and roasted red peppers. I got that done this morning. Made my soup which was really good - good comfort food - and then made paninis with basil oil, water-packed mozzarella balls (sliced), prosciutto, roasted red peppers, and a spring mix - stuck a couple at a time in the panini grill and sliced them in thirds.

This was at their home - it was a "sit around" kind of lunch for family only. They did their last minute running around and buying something to wear tonight. Carol, the wife of Jerry who passed away, has lost so much weight she couldn't wear anything - not even rigged. Thank you again for the thoughts and prayers. You guys are great!!!!

So, I'm going to leave in about 15 minutes, get to their home again, and set everything out for family and friends. I've had this piece for a long time, I shared it with Carol and she agrees with me, it's very healing and comforting - I'll share it here. You never know who might need to hear it too.

Death is nothing at all;
I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I, and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other that we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name;
speak to me in the same easy way you always used.
Put no deference into your tone; wear no forced air
of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little
jokes we enjoyed together.

Play...smile...think of me.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it always was;
there is absolutely unbroken continuity.

I am waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near,
just around the corner
............and all is well...all is well

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Old 11-06-2004, 06:12 PM   #20
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Kudos to you kitchennisse, sounds like you did a wonderful job with the food. It all sounds wonderful. Thanks for sharing that lovely poem.

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