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Old 01-09-2014, 04:26 AM   #11
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Old 01-09-2014, 06:10 AM   #12
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I miss my dad every day. Seems like the "firsts" are the hardest.

Hopefully the feelings of sadness, will eventually be overshadowed by the happy memories, they are for me now.


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Old 01-09-2014, 09:39 AM   #13
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So sorry, Dawg. I don't have any soft fuzzies of my mother so I can't relate, but I wish I could. On the other hand, it was 40 years ago November that my father died and, some days, I miss him as much now as the day he died.

As others have said, the sadness lessens and is cushioned by all the good memories. Hang on to those.
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Old 01-09-2014, 09:50 AM   #14
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So sorry for your loss. My mother has been gone 38 years, but I still think if things I want to tell her.
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Old 01-09-2014, 10:04 AM   #15
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I do understand, Dawg. All those "firsts" seem to be the hardest, though as others have said it really doesn't get easier. It will be 2 years for Dad and 19 for Mom in March and I miss them equally.

Sending love and big hugs to you {{{{{{{{{{{{{Dawg}}}}}}}}}}}}}
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Old 01-09-2014, 01:37 PM   #16
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Awww (((Dawg))), I'm so sorry. I lost my beloved Mom many years ago, on my husband's birthday. Now he's gone too, and on each Nov. 17th I think of the profound impact they both had on my life. After all these years, I've learned the grieving finally stops, but the missing never does.
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Old 01-09-2014, 01:42 PM   #17
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I am so sorry for you. Sad, very sad. May her memory be for a blessing.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:36 PM   #18
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Thanks so much, everyone, for all the support! DC family are the best!
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Old 01-09-2014, 08:29 PM   #19
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We love you, Dawg, and we feel very much sorrow for your loss.

Mamma always says, "No one is truly gone, as long as we carry them in our hearts."

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