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Old 05-15-2013, 03:45 PM   #1
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Dinner vs supper

As I was posting in today's menu thread, I realized I typed supper and thread was titled dinner. Growing up, we had breakfast, dinner and supper. It wasn't until I moved to the Cleveland area that I heard people talking about the noon meal as lunch and the evening meal as dinner. Talk about a confused little girl! I have switched dinner to lunch for the noon meal but still tend to call the evening meal supper. Yet when we go out to eat we go out to dinner!
What do you call your meals?


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Old 05-15-2013, 03:52 PM   #2
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My understanding is, if you had your main meal at midday, it was dinner and the evening meal is supper. If you have lunch at midday, the evening meal is dinner. I guess what that says is that the main meal of the day is dinner regardless of when you eat it.

All that said, the evening meal was always supper when I was a kid. We had lunch at noon. Now SO and I lean more towards calling the evening meal dinner.

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Old 05-15-2013, 04:08 PM   #3
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I grew up with breakfast, dinner and supper or tea.

The midday meal was always larger than the evening meal and the evening meal tended to be made up of leftovers from the midday meal. Preparations for dinner started immediately after breakfast in my grandmother's house.

The term lunch was more of a quick snack. This was about the only time a sandwich of some type appeared on the table. I have been told that the sandwich did not come into regular use until the mechanical bread slicing machines became common. That idea would fit into my experience. I believe that was about the time of the Great Depression. My grandmother's routine was established prior to that time.

The word tea was a term that my mother adopted when I was about 11 or 12. It was her way of being modest about the size of the meal.

I think this pattern was a holdover from the days before refrigeration.

I try to follow that same pattern most days.

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Old 05-15-2013, 05:01 PM   #4
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It was breakfast, dinner, and supper when I was growing up as well.
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Old 05-15-2013, 05:29 PM   #5
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While growing up, it was breakfast, School Lunch or Sunday Dinner. Lunch in the summer or off days, unless it was dinner again, for some reason. Supper was always supper, and was the big meal of the day, unless again, it was Sunday Dinner, which was often the main meal.

Nowadays, it's breakfast, lunch and dinner. Pick 2, I almost only eat 2 meals / day and sometimes a miidnight snack, which can be served anytime and seldom occurs 'round midnight.

I am with Hoot, I don't care what you call it, just don't call me late to the tabloe.
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Old 05-15-2013, 05:45 PM   #6
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I'm with the majority. We had breakfast, and lunch was a school or midday meal, with the main meal being dinner.

If, on the weekends or in summer, we had the main meal early, we had breakfast, dinner and supper.

Nowadays, with my hubby working 3 - 11:30 pm Monday to Friday, we always have dinner around 1 pm and he takes sandwiches, while I have a salad or something light in the evening, which would be supper!
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Old 05-15-2013, 05:52 PM   #7
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I grew up in a small farming community where we always had breakfast, lunch, and supper. The only time we ever used the word dinner was on Sundays, when we would all trudge down the street to my grandparents' house for a mid afternoon meal. Usually it was some kind of roast. My grandparents, who spent most of their lives on a farm, always referred to any big meal as dinner.

I don't remember at what point in my life supper became dinner, though. I suspect it may have been a nationwide trend, because when I now go back to the town where I grew up, most people refer to the evening meal as dinner.
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Old 05-15-2013, 06:29 PM   #8
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Growing up we had breakfast in the morning, lunch around noon, and dinner for our evening meal, but it was basically interchangeable with supper. Big family meals (whether in the afternoon or evening) were usually dinner (Sunday Dinner, Thanksgiving Dinner, etc.). I never actually heard anyone call the midday meal dinner until we moved to Missouri when I was 8.
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Old 05-15-2013, 06:58 PM   #9
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Breakfast, lunch and supper here, too. I believe the word dinner was reserved for a holiday meal, as in Thanksgiving Dinner, which we sometimes ate at 1:00 and sometimes ate at 4:00. And sometimes I ate both at different houses.
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Old 05-15-2013, 08:29 PM   #10
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My Canadian mom felt there was a difference between dinner and supper. I never did understand her explanation. I simplified it to breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

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