Thanks everyone for the great responses.
Katie E- I like the crab meat suggestion, will have to try that sometime.
OSis- I used your bacon idea, didn't have any chives.
Maverick- We usually have the plain ones, but tonight I wanted something different.
GotGarlic-I forgot the pickles.
Babe- that is our usual also.
jpmcgrew- I like all of your suggestions except the cavier and tobasco, DW can't have spicy things.
kitchenelf- I agree with the usual stuff at gatherings, if I took anything different they would throw rocks at me. LOL
bigjimbray- I agree, just about everyone likes deviled eggs.
pdswife- I like the bacon, didn't have any green onions.
sattie- have to leave the spicy things out, I will add them later for me.
miniman-I like onions DW doesn't. RE
buckytom-I love franks, but...........have to fix things without a lot of spice.
Loprraine- I have never had wasabi mayo, is that spicy?
Chef Mark- again the spicy thing for DW.
Robo410- I like the smoked salmon idea, that's something we could try in the future.
bethzaring- I like horseradish, DW doesn't.
RPMcMurphy- nice spread!
middie- Celery salt would have been nice, just didn't think of that.
This is what I ended up adding to mine last night. Mustard, mayo, bacon pieces, cheddar cheese and sour cream, then sprinkled paprika on top. They were a hit, but not a replacement for the plain ol' boring usual way.
Again thanks so much for input from all of you. JD