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Old 08-25-2008, 05:15 PM   #11
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wish i knew how to e-mail this to my granddaughter. her mom called this am and once again, despite promises, to care for her kittens.

against her better judgment , my daughter got her two kittens. morgan begged two years for them. morgan is almost seventeen and has "fallen in love" with a loser boy. so kittens aren't important to her.

i hate "disposable pets attitude"

i told mom to take the cell from her each evening, until pets are taken care of. we will see. she wants to talk with this boy very much maybe it will work.

so sad

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Old 08-25-2008, 06:04 PM   #12
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Babe... just copy texasgirl's original post and paste in an email...

I too hate the disposable pet attitude myslef... they are life-long companions!
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Old 08-25-2008, 08:12 PM   #13
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Number 10 .. how could one not... We had to put down our 14 you schnauzer on July 31. I couldn't even consider not being there with her. We held her as she went to sleep.
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Old 08-25-2008, 08:17 PM   #14
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ok this really tore at my heart strings, as we are getting close to the decision to put my 14 year old dog down. He is starting to lose his bladder control. He's not too bad. If we remember to make him go out just before we leave he's ok, because he doesn't eat or drink when we are gone, but if we forget. I come home to pee from one end of the kitchen to the door. He is also deaf and doesn't see to well anymore. hubby says he is suffering, I say he isn't because he is not in pain and he gets around good. Vet couldn't believe he was 14 and still walking around like he was. I don't want to put him down, but I dont' want him to suffer either. What does everyone hear consider suffering?
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Old 08-25-2008, 09:14 PM   #15
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ok this really tore at my heart strings, as we are getting close to the decision to put my 14 year old dog down. He is starting to lose his bladder control. He's not too bad. If we remember to make him go out just before we leave he's ok, because he doesn't eat or drink when we are gone, but if we forget. I come home to pee from one end of the kitchen to the door. He is also deaf and doesn't see to well anymore. hubby says he is suffering, I say he isn't because he is not in pain and he gets around good. Vet couldn't believe he was 14 and still walking around like he was. I don't want to put him down, but I dont' want him to suffer either. What does everyone hear consider suffering?
I left you a message on your profile. Anyhow, I will say this.... you will know when it is 'time' or if they are suffering. When I went through this with Buster... I knew he was hurting and uncomfortable. I could have kept him around another week... but then I had to really evaluate what he would have to go though vs my wanting to keep him around. One of the hardest decisions you will ever make.

I was there with my little Buster... he went so quickly and quietly. Ok, gotta stop crying again. I miss my Buster!!!
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Old 08-25-2008, 09:33 PM   #16
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ok this really tore at my heart strings, as we are getting close to the decision to put my 14 year old dog down. He is starting to lose his bladder control. He's not too bad. If we remember to make him go out just before we leave he's ok, because he doesn't eat or drink when we are gone, but if we forget. I come home to pee from one end of the kitchen to the door. He is also deaf and doesn't see to well anymore. hubby says he is suffering, I say he isn't because he is not in pain and he gets around good. Vet couldn't believe he was 14 and still walking around like he was. I don't want to put him down, but I dont' want him to suffer either. What does everyone hear consider suffering?
When the life has gone from their eyes, that's when it's time.
And I don't think it's time for your guy yet. Did you know they make male diapers? http://www.kennelkomforts.net/Mercha...egory_Code=BB2 And I know there is incontinence meds for females... maybe for males, too? And the obvious (not trying to be calous) remember to let him out.
It doesn't sound like he's suffering. Dogs don't "feel" things the way we do. They adapt much better to losing their sight or going deaf. I take care of quite a few deaf dogs and I swear sometimes they know exactly what I am saying. They seem so intuitive.
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Old 08-25-2008, 09:42 PM   #17
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WOW, I never thought they had doggie diapers. Pretty neat. And yes the obvious is to remember to let him out just before we leave. He just started doing this so our family has to get into the habit of making him go out wether he wants to or not. Thanks for the link I'm going to check into them.
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Old 08-25-2008, 11:37 PM   #18
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I know how your heart feels. At some point your dear friend will let you know it's time. Then you must do your duty. My dear Ddobie looked deep into my eyes one night (she had congestive heart failure and couldn't even lay down) and I knew she was saying "I love you but it's time to let me go" and we went to the vet the next day. I've never not held my pet when that final time was there. That's part of the courage you need to have to deserve these wonderful creatures! It's the least that we owe them.

Ok, now I'm crying too.
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Old 08-26-2008, 12:15 AM   #19
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Oh jeez. How to not cry?
First I was going to say #4 was the best, then I read #5 and changed my mind, until #8, then 9, then 10.
They all are so touching.
Thanks Stacey.
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Old 08-26-2008, 06:50 AM   #20
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Okay I was good up until #10. That hit me hard because when I had to have Max and Disney put to sleep I didn't go. I couldn't do it.
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