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Old 10-05-2018, 09:47 AM   #1
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The last days of my mother's life have made me very sad. Today, when Pete, my OH, took Lucas our dog, it was particulaly bad. Before, when he took Lucas for his morning walk, I would phone my mother to see how she was, and now she isn't there any more, but I went over the UK to say goodbye, and she asked me to comb her hair because she thought she was a mess. I used to phone her every day to see how she was.

Her loss is hitting our whole family, and that's what happens to every family, but that's what happens to every family when you lose someone you love.



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Old 10-05-2018, 09:54 AM   #2
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Di, so sorry for your loss.
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Di, I am so sorry for your loss. I have lost both of my parents and maybe it happens in all families, but right now the only one that matters is yours. Big hugs and just be there for each other for as long as it takes.
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Old 10-05-2018, 11:45 AM   #4
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Sorry for your loss, Di. Remember that she will always be with you in your heart.
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Old 10-05-2018, 12:30 PM   #5
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I'm sorry for your loss, di.
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Old 10-05-2018, 12:41 PM   #6
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The last days of my mother's life have made me very sad. Today, when Pete, my OH, took Lucas our dog, it was particulaly bad. Before, when he took Lucas for his morning walk, I would phone my mother to see how she was, and now she isn't there any more, but I went over the UK to say goodbye, and she asked me to comb her hair because she thought she was a mess. I used to phone her every day to see how she was.

Her loss is hitting our whole family, and that's what happens to every family, but that's what happens to every family when you lose someone you love.



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So sorry to hear this, Di. Thoughts and prayers go with you.
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Old 10-05-2018, 12:45 PM   #7
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I'm very sorry Di.

It's always heartbreaking to loose the first person who ever loved you.
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Old 10-05-2018, 12:51 PM   #8
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Sorry for your loss. I know how you feel. My father just passed away 2 weeks ago. So I am right with you. My condolences.
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Old 10-05-2018, 12:58 PM   #9
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(((Hugs Di))) I'm sad to read this. I offer my sincere condolences.
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Old 10-05-2018, 01:10 PM   #10
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I am truly sorry for your loss.

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