Steve Kroll
Wine Guy
I spent a lot of time in the south 25 years ago - mostly Louisiana, Mississippi, Arkansas, and Florida. I don't recall ever being referred to as a "yankee" except in fun by people I considered friends. It was never mean spirited. In fact, I would say 90% of the people I met were very nice, and I've kept in touch with several over the years. Of course there were a few jerks and trouble makers, but I could say the exact same thing about everywhere else I've ever been.I moved to South Carolina from Miami Florida almost 30 years ago. I was called a Yankee and was made fun of because I had never used an outhouse. Northerners and anyone that is not white are not received very well.
This has been my personal experience.
On the subject of cooking (since this is DC), I love southern cuisine and eat a lot of it. I had grits this morning for breakfast, and turnip greens last night for dinner. Some of my all-time favorite meals are straight out of the bayou: red beans & rice, gumbo, etouffee, and jambalaya.