I don't need to put a bunch of smiles on this response. You already know what's in my heart.
Marge, you have done well, and so has John. With patience, faith, and a little TLC, I expect that John will recover fully. He will need to be careful and manage his life more closely now. But you know, often when someone goes through a critical time such as John has, it creates a zest for life like never before. And John will savor each moment with his family. He will have new and better perspective about what's important. It just may be that he needed a little "push" in the right direction.
Give thanks and know that you and John are loved not only by us here on DC, but by your creator. And that goes for everyone who reads this post too.
Now, let's every one of us go out and make our lives count.
Seeeeeeya; Goodweed of the North