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Old 03-27-2006, 07:54 AM   #1
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Do You Tip A For A Massage?

Tipping is always such a cloudy issuse. When it comes to restaurants I feel I am a very good tipper. I almost never leave less than 20% and often times leave more than that. What about tipping for a massage though? Are you supposed to tip and if so what percent? I know there is no right answer here so Tell me what you do.

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Old 03-27-2006, 08:49 AM   #2
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I view massage as a "medical procedure" and get mine at a body works clinic from licensed professionals etc. I don't tip my doctor, dentist, lawyer, etc. I do tip my barber, but I don't pay him $85 and hour either (or more!)

I think it kinda depends what kind of massage and where you get it. A neck/back massage at a beauty parlor, maybe it's common. At some day spas it may be possible to tip on a percentage of the entire bill and know it gets divided fairly. I would say, get to know your massuse and inquire.
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Old 03-27-2006, 10:32 AM   #3
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I have never tipped after a massage. Frankly, my brain is usually mush by then and they are darned lucky I can even figure out how to pay them, let alone tip.

I'm with Robo though, I see it as a medical thing and I would never tip my doctor or dentist.
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Old 03-27-2006, 10:39 AM   #4
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I think of it as a paid procedure too, so I wouldn't tip. However, if this is something that you do on a fairly regular basis, I would tip at Christmas, or buy a small gift.
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Old 03-27-2006, 10:49 AM   #5
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I always tip when I get a massage. The place I go to is a salon/massage spa and I tip the hair stylists and manicurists so I tip the person who gives me a massage as well.
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Old 03-27-2006, 10:57 AM   #6
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This is interesting. I would never have thought to tip a masseuse. I think maybe the difference would be the place where they work and who owns it. If the masseuse is the owner, no tip. If they work for some larger entity, then maybe.

I personally feel tipping gets a bit out of hand and ridiculous. That is not intended as a slam or to say that people should stop doing it. I just think that the number of people expecting a tip is greater than I think it should be. Oh dear, that didn't come out the way I intended it to. Hopefully it makes sense to you all.
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If it's a chiropractor or someone who charges for the services as a medical practice, you wouldn't. If it's at a salon or spa you should. Percentage wise, I'm not sure. I would say maybe 10% but someone please correct me if I'm wrong. But the main difference in the two places are in the pay. Many spas will pay their employees a much less hourly wage (same as a restaurant) because they can supplement their income with tips. A PT or sports medicine/rehab place will pay a much higher hourly to their employees because they can depend on insurance premiums and other factors to pay for the patient visits.
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Old 03-27-2006, 04:21 PM   #8
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I have never tipped after a massage. Frankly, my brain is usually mush by then and they are darned lucky I can even figure out how to pay them, let alone tip.

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I can vouch for that. She's a lousy tipper!
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Old 03-27-2006, 04:31 PM   #9
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I usually just lie down on the massage table.
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Old 03-27-2006, 07:34 PM   #10
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I have been for quite a few massages. Other than the one while we were on our honeymoon they have always been for medical (back/neck) problems. I had never tipped before. Well this last time I went to a new girl. I believe she works for herself, but rents a room in the back of a hair salon. I do not think (but I could be wrong) that she actaully works for the salon. She gave me a discount (as a lot of them do), because it was my first time with her so the total for 60 minutes was $48. I handed her $50 and then she asked if I needed change. I said no. I felt kind of weird because I am happy to tip if it is the correct thing to do, but I had the $50 I gave her plus a for twentys. I felt that if I was going to tip them $2 was not enough, but I didn't give her a twenty and tell her to keep some more. So now I don't know what to do the next time I see her. If I plan on tipping her each time then I need to give her extra to make up the horrible tip I left her the first time, but if I do not plan on tipping her again then it will be a little awkward since I gave her a couple of bucks the first time.

After I gave her the money she did not seem offended in any way or anything and continued to talk to me and give me advice about what to do if I was sore the next day or two and things like that so hopefully she did not mind the lousy tip.
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