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Old 08-12-2008, 08:10 PM   #141
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Babe..John's birthday would be Aug. 23rd.

I hope you are right about a coming peace...
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Old 08-13-2008, 09:57 AM   #142
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Oh Marge, what a lovely dream...
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Old 08-13-2008, 06:40 PM   #143
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I have tears in my eyes most of the time now. I just wish they would stop.I am acting like a big baby.
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Old 08-13-2008, 06:58 PM   #144
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Marge don't even try to stop those tears. They are human. It's been 5 years since my DH lost his Dad and sister 5 months apart.... the tears are not going to stop and shouldn't.
His mother amazes me with waking up every day... although she was not married to his Dad anymore. They were still friends.....
But to lose a child.
You do what comes and don't feel wrong about it for one moment.
Sorry.....
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Old 08-13-2008, 09:08 PM   #145
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I have tears in my eyes most of the time now. I just wish they would stop.I am acting like a big baby.
You are not being a big baby. you have lost not only your life partner, but also your beloved son! If you weren't crying, I swould be worried about you!
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Old 08-14-2008, 12:47 AM   #146
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Marge,

As the others have said, let the tears come. I still cry now and then when I think of how much I miss my mom. I couldn't imagine losing James or my daughter. You have been through a lot, and it is normal to have stong feelings now and then.

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Old 08-14-2008, 07:08 PM   #147
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i concur.
let your sadness roll away with tears.
my Pap passed, & tears washed away my initial grief. i still cry.
crying is a way of relieving sadness & grief, & you're allowed to cry when you want to!!
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Old 08-23-2008, 02:23 AM   #148
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Tomorrow Saturday the 23rd would have been John's 53rd Birthday.Please keep the family in your Prayers and thoughts..it is going to be a rough day for us all. He has been gone 9 months and 10 days now..about as long as it took for me to bring him into the world..minus 10 days.
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Old 08-23-2008, 03:05 AM   #149
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Marge,
you all will be in my prayers, just as you are everyday..You are deeply loved Marge.Peace to you.
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I've been missing Marge on here. Does anyone know where she has been? how she's doing?
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