Best thing you can do (and I know it sounds mean) is tell him that you won't allow him to come to your house if he's been drinking. Alcohol + depression is a terrible mix. Does he have regular meds? Please go pick up his wife for him.
He takes his meds. Not sure what they are but right now he is FAST asleep on my couch. (hey its Italian leather! ). But when he wakes up...... I dont know if I should let him go and get his wife. I think he feels Im more attractive and is a bit jealous. Oh Boy. This guy has been trhough the ringer. But I think I should let him drive. ARGH.