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Old 09-12-2013, 12:19 PM   #11
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What everyone else said

You know that your real parents (the ones who adopted you) wanted you.
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Old 09-12-2013, 12:43 PM   #12
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Thank you! I am proud to know all of you. I am glad you adore children! I love them also. I like to watch them play here in the playground, and sometimes I take Azia there to play with them. Children with a dog is always very much fun!

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Old 09-12-2013, 12:59 PM   #13
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There's no stigma at all in this country. If it makes you feel any better I'm adopted, too, and have never met my real parents.
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Old 09-12-2013, 02:27 PM   #14
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There's no stigma at all in this country. If it makes you feel any better I'm adopted, too, and have never met my real parents.
Sure you have. They are the parents who love you. You have never met your biological parents.
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Old 09-12-2013, 02:34 PM   #15
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Sure you have. They are the parents who love you. You have never met your biological parents.
Oh! I always thought of that but I never said it!

I am loved very much from my family. It is why I am here and it is why I must be successful and make them never regret of choosing me for their child.

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Old 09-12-2013, 03:18 PM   #16
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I have friends who are trying to adopt a child from Africa. We all (their friends and family) support them as much as if they were expecting naturally. We are very excited that they are growing their family in this very loving way. You need not be ashamed. Your natural parents did what was best for you. That is a very loving act. Your adoptive parents did an equally loving act. See how many people love you! As you know America is a country built by many different kinds of people. We welcome these differences. It is one of the things that make this a great country. We welcome all kinds of people.
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Old 09-12-2013, 03:27 PM   #17
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+1. And you should not feel obligated to tell anyone in real life, either. It's a fact of your life, like hair color. No need to announce it

And maybe your birth parents felt they could not take care of you as well as an adoptive family. It is an act of love to give up a child to a better home.
A friend of mine was adopted as a baby in the late 1940s. She was always told she was special because most Mummies and Daddies had to be content with what they chanced to get but her Mummy and Daddy got to chose the best baby.

That may not be very PC in this day and age but, as she said to me recently, as a small girl she felt dreadfully sorry for children who weren't adopted.
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Old 09-12-2013, 03:34 PM   #18
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My mother was adopted. All she recalled was joy growing up, all the indulgence and love. Then her parents adopted another little girl, Mom was so mad! She had wanted a plaid skirt, not a baby sister!
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Old 09-12-2013, 03:52 PM   #19
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Thank G-d you live in the normal country, thank G-d people here are normal people. Nothing wrong with being adapted, on the opposite, you are a very lucky girl. And I am sure your parents are lucky too, lucky to have found you and have you as a daughter. Where did you come from originally? Is it ok to ask you that? You do not have to answer it. Just being nosy.
On the other hand, Hoot, you are so uninformed. In the pathetic country I am coming from adoption was a huge stigma. People would move just so they would cover the fact that they adopted a child, children would be made fun of, teased. Unfortunatelly I doubt it was the only country with such mean people. I donít even want to think about it. Thank G-d I do not live there anymore.
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Old 09-12-2013, 03:59 PM   #20
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Cat is from Romania, Charlie.
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