I need some advice

[expatgirl]

Sometimes you need to step back............and I wish so much all the best for you...I had to deal with family dynamics for many years---any you know what i learned??? They will love you no matter what---if you are showing that you are taking care of their daughter or son and the grandchildren and they will put up with anything...leave them out of the loop and you're going to have problems........don't leave them out of the loop.......and you won't have too many problems

 

[expatgirl]

I guess I should have added that as long as families know that everything is ok then most of them will be okay , too---just keep in touch I guess is the message....don't be distant.....that's the worst thing you can do........