Uncle Bob
Chef Extraordinaire
I guess you just need to decide who you care about the most...your wife or your friend? When you decide...have a drink of Scotch and forgetaboutit!
You can solve it. You are just looking for excuses not to. It is much easier to tell your friend honestly then to do what you have been doing. If he is truly your friend and brother then you can speak to him with honesty. You are just looking for excuses left and right to not do that. You won't even address the honesty issue.It could simply be displaced anger or resentment on an issue I cannot solve.
I do not see how it is selfish to be honest with your guest and tell them you would love to have them over, but the night needs to end by a certain time.
Chico said it drive him nuts and he doesn't know how to solve it. That, to me, sounds like someone who is looking to take action. He also posted how he is miserable and how he is unhappy with the situation. That sounds like someone looking to take action.so it was questionable as to whether action needed to be taken or not.
I understand. It's nice that you are trying to help.lChico said it drive him nuts and he doesn't know how to solve it. That, to me, sounds like someone who is looking to take action. He also posted how he is miserable and how he is unhappy with the situation. That sounds like someone looking to take action.
i don't get your biker connotation. so you're a biker. love bikes, my Dad's getting his 2nd for himself & my Mum. i spent years growing into adulthood with bikers.
i've frequented many bike nites & those bikers didn't mind that some non-biker chick & her guy were theer, we drank with them. maybe that's bikers from where i'm from.
that aside, say you're calling it a nite! it's your call..... you assert yourself in a non-agressive manner & people respond.......