Well, very literally I have asked that my ashes are made into diamonds and these are turned into studs for my husbands dress shirt and cufflinks so that he can still take me out in the evenings. He will be earings for me if the other way around. So I guess we will remmeber each other often.
Otherwise, I guess I don't care if anyone else remembers me besides my family and friends, or at least that I do no harm that I am remembered for. I have lived in a home tht was my mother in laws for three years - she died over eight years ago but little has changed and we have been tied to it because the rest of the family (though now living in a different country) will in no way, change, rent or sell it. This is remberance but it is good or healthy. It would be better to let go of the physicality of her now, imho
I am most definitely a work in progress, and I doubt I will ever acheive everything I want, but I want to try! I try and live a moral life and to answer to my own actions, I try and impact as little on the planet as I can, I try and help people when I can and I speak out for what I believe in. If people remember those things, then I will be more than grateful.
In omnibus amor et iustum