Oh, Mish... I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I cant imagine what you must be feeling at the moment. I don't really know what I can say to make things easier (but really, what can a person say in situations like these?) but just know that you and those around you are in my thoughts and prayers...
Mish first of all you know we love you here. You are more than welcome to PM me anytime and Chat if you like, I am sure I am not the only one willing to do that. I am so sorry to hear of you great loss. I wish I could give you a Hug right this minute.
As for your Friends Husband, just being there to listen is the kindess gift we can share with each other. I am sure you have let him know by now you would be willing to help out. Men are not always the Best at sharing cause we are so "Tough" don't believe that. He won't be go through the toughest spots until after the Funeral . This will be when he will need the most support and then its different for how long, just depends on the person. Trust me 2 weeks out and beyond after things like this happen are where the real love shows up. Be there I know you will. Love to you Mish James
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Mish, I echo everyone else and am so sorry for the pain you must be feeling right now. There's no one right thing to do in a time like this--know you're being a wonderful friend by being concerned and offering your love and support. [[[hugs]]]
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