bilby, don't worry. I don't overread into things like this. I didn't mean that I go off looking at everything that can go wrong, no, I go to the American Cancer Society and other places of this nature. I did the very same when my mom was diagnosed with Colon Cancer it helped me tremendously to know what was ahead in treatment, symptoms, emotions etc..
We are taking it day by day and we'll will deal with anything that happens and be overjoyed when it is all over and she is in the clear. I have faith that the surgery will be all that she needs.
I also don't take what others say as gospel either. I am able to read and listen to others experiences without jumping to the bad. My niece knows that I love her dearly and knows that we are all worried and scared for her, but, we do not go overboard and scare her. Like I said, my niece is strong. She is laughing and joking and being the person that she always is. We have gone this route before with my mom and it is nothing like hers. We knew she was going to die before it happened because it had spread so far. My niece will live a long and healthy life because it was caught in time.