I know, mine had one day surgery to repair a hernia not long ago and let me tell you..Oh boy!!First off being a pharmacist, he knows everything about everything
right? Then man was a wreck..Before surgery he could drive himself there and back, after, thank God they had a wheel chair or else I would have had to carry him..Every five minutes was the bandage okay, were there any sutures , he couldn't look made him gag,could he have some soup,water? ice cream? newspapar, what was I doing on the puter? Wake me up at 3 gee okay I'll take a nap now it's 4 see, after about 2 weeks, he got a tad bored, by the 3rd week he was up and off again..He survived, he made it, it was a piece of cake and look he did it all by his lonesome
Now if someone aske me about a c-section, what the heck do I know, nd he's off and running, after all he had the kids, I just watched
All kidding aside, I was bushed and once he started to get on his feet, he did everything he could for me as he always has...Your DH has been through it and I bet at the back of his mind is a little nag about the cancer..how could there not be? Hang in there and steal a minute when you can..
hugs to you both.