When TB is sleeping in the bed by himself, Violet is always curled up as close to him as she can possible get. I need to move around a lot because of my body pain - I can't stay in one position too long (which is why I wake up so much).
So, when I am sleeping alone in the bed Violet takes up all of TB's side and leaves me alone. When we are both in it, she gets down and goes and sleeps in one of her many beds around the house. She will come up again in the night, but when I move, she's gone.
Now that I have been sleeping a lot in my chair, Vi has started taking over my side and looks pretty ticked when I decide to crawl in during the night. I feel like the "other woman"!