Originally Posted by PrincessFiona60
I would also let the police know what the HOA President had to say about the incident, accusing you of flirting with guard.
----- it comes under the heading of "blaming the victim"
which why many women don't report rapes.
The gate guard, while perhaps being 'just':
1. A male chauvinist pig
2. A jackass
3. A numbskull
4. A closet gay
5. A person with at least one small appendage
---should not be allowed to keep doing that. That type of behavior often escalates into something a lot more criminal, like rape!
HOA is complicit in his behavior and should be reported!