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Old 10-04-2006, 12:14 PM   #11
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Sorry Sush! That special one is out there and one day your paths will cross. Thank Goodness the good Lord put a road block in front of that path . Her loss in my opinion.

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Old 10-04-2006, 12:21 PM   #12
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Sorry, Sushi, but you know what? That was time well spent. It showed you exactly the kind of girl you don't want to go after. She doesn't sound very understanding of a guy who's in the middle of a problem, then blames you for it. There are lots of nice girls out there who will make you forget this one in a big hurry. Check out the produce section of your supermarket. If you see one you're interested in, ask her a question about a fruit or veggie! That's what all the singles do in my city. It works!

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Old 10-04-2006, 01:17 PM   #13
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Here in New England (six states in the northeastern United States) we have a name for women like that. It's not nice.
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Old 10-04-2006, 01:38 PM   #14
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they're called the red sox (j/k andy. how's the off season so far? )

running away........................

actually sush, as has been mentioned, it was a pretty cheap way to find out that she's the wrong girl (i had to erase the first 15 things i wrote there, lol).

it coulda been worse. she could have made you spend big bucks on a few dinners, or worse, before you found out.
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Old 10-04-2006, 02:09 PM   #15
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My first thought was, why would a woman call you at 10pm for a first date? You would think she would have given you the courtesy of setting a time and day/night to get together in advance so you/she could plan better.

Obvioulsy she wasnt as intelligent as she first seemed. Sorry you had to go through that.
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Old 10-04-2006, 03:33 PM   #16
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Sush I'm so sorry this happened to you. But everyone's right... at least you found out about her early enough before you spent big bucks on her.
I find it disturbing to see how unappreciative she was of you.
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Old 10-04-2006, 03:40 PM   #17
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sush, vagriller nailed it. The only time she's gonna call again is when she is low on cash and wants to go out. Chalk this one up to experience.
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Old 10-04-2006, 03:59 PM   #18
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Something like that happened to me on my first date with my first girlfriend on February 16th.

I deposited some cheques just before going out with her.
I didn't withdraw any money cause I had my card.
So, we went to Casey's and ordered our food.
So when it was time to pay the bill I handed the lady my card, and she handed it back and said "We don't have debit, use the machine at the back there"

I have a youth account at my bank, so I could only withdraw $20.
Which was just over half the bill.
OMG!! I was soo pissed! And I couldn't flip out in front of her.
So she offered to pay... I really really didn't want her to.
So lameness.
I did bake her cookies, and mix a few cds for her, and got her a big red teddy bear and took her out for a movie... So it could have been worse.

But up to this day, I havn't let her pay for anything, cept that one time...
We were at her university, getting some food.
She has a food card, so when I said I'm paying, she pulled out her wallet and a quarter fell out. I picked it up, and by the time I got up she had already swiped it (thats all she has to do) and gathered our food.

Also up to this day, I havn't eaten at Casey's.
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Old 10-04-2006, 04:03 PM   #19
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Originally Posted by vagriller
Sounds like she was low on cash and wanted a sugar daddy for the night!

hope you're feeling better sush
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Old 10-04-2006, 04:22 PM   #20
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I echo what everyone else has already said. Better you know from the first date what kind of person she is. Some girls just expect the guy to pay which I don't think is right. Of course it is nice when a guy treats you to dinner but it shouldn't be expected, especially on a first date when she called you.

Don't worry, there are plenty of lovely girls out there and I hope that the next girl you meet is one of them and treats you well

But as for having cash...well it's always handy to have some to hand. I always have at least £10 with me in case I want to get a snack to eat, train ticket or whatever and there are no cash machines nearby, there's a queue or they are broken. It's just handy

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