LOL! Vicki!!! I feel for you.
My daughter turns 21 this year and is off to college in California. She can be a bit of a whiner too when she's not being a... well... We never hear from her unless she needs something, usually it's something she's doing on the internet and needs a CGI program written, or installed, or....
Thankfully she never asks for money because she knows that she's not going to get it.
Oh, and don't worry about Hades. If that's all it takes to get sent downstairs then the firey furnace is replete with parents.
~ Raven ~