CharlieD
Chef Extraordinaire
The Italian wedding soup came up in the different thread. So I decided to explore this a bit.
I just read the recipe for the Italian wedding soup and found it to be very simple. And probably, actually very good, but wedding?????????????? Do they really serve it for wedding? In Ukraine, if I were to serve something like this for the wedding the people probably would take the whole pot and poor it over my head. And that is where the question of customs comes.
For example in Ukraine the wedding feast would consist of numerous appetizers, of fish and meats. Smoked, salted, processed, made into salads and simply sliced. That would be served alone with numerous salads. Next there will be main course during which there will be again numerous main dishes served on platters alone with numerous side dishes served also on big platters so person could choose whatever he/she wants.
The same thing will be for deserts. There would be many different cakes and sweets served, as an opposite for one main wedding cake, like it is done here in America.
What about other customs. I see here in the States it is either buffet stile or if it is seat down diner a person brought one portion of something and it is all you get. To me an American wedding party is a big joke. People invite 200-300 hundreds guests and then have no food, no drinks, no alcohol. Okay it is not always like that, but I have been to few weddings that barely had any foods. There were a lot of music and dancing, but I am sorry to me, and this is obviously cultural thing, party must have a lot of foods.
My wife is American so it was a mixture of both, we had tons of hors d’oeuvres, open bar, but then seat down diner were portions were served and if you were still hungry – too bad. I simply do not understand that. I do not understand why invite people if you can’t provide drinks and foods. One wedding we went bride and groom simply left and went to bar next door to have drinks, huh… what’s with that, how rude.
Anyway fire away. Tell me about customs you know of.
I just read the recipe for the Italian wedding soup and found it to be very simple. And probably, actually very good, but wedding?????????????? Do they really serve it for wedding? In Ukraine, if I were to serve something like this for the wedding the people probably would take the whole pot and poor it over my head. And that is where the question of customs comes.
For example in Ukraine the wedding feast would consist of numerous appetizers, of fish and meats. Smoked, salted, processed, made into salads and simply sliced. That would be served alone with numerous salads. Next there will be main course during which there will be again numerous main dishes served on platters alone with numerous side dishes served also on big platters so person could choose whatever he/she wants.
The same thing will be for deserts. There would be many different cakes and sweets served, as an opposite for one main wedding cake, like it is done here in America.
What about other customs. I see here in the States it is either buffet stile or if it is seat down diner a person brought one portion of something and it is all you get. To me an American wedding party is a big joke. People invite 200-300 hundreds guests and then have no food, no drinks, no alcohol. Okay it is not always like that, but I have been to few weddings that barely had any foods. There were a lot of music and dancing, but I am sorry to me, and this is obviously cultural thing, party must have a lot of foods.
My wife is American so it was a mixture of both, we had tons of hors d’oeuvres, open bar, but then seat down diner were portions were served and if you were still hungry – too bad. I simply do not understand that. I do not understand why invite people if you can’t provide drinks and foods. One wedding we went bride and groom simply left and went to bar next door to have drinks, huh… what’s with that, how rude.
Anyway fire away. Tell me about customs you know of.