Woman of dreams

[middie]

oh sush. i'm so sorry !!! well... she's the one who's going to be losing out.
does as country suggested though and get a lawyer asap. hope everything
works out for you. i'll be praying for you hon.

 

[thier1754]

Oh, brother. As a mother of three boys/men, the hardest thing is to know how sincere your guys are and how hard they try to do the right thing and then to have them be misunderstood. We love you, Sushi. Please keep us informed. ((((((hugs))))))

 

[-DEADLY SUSHI-]

Thanks guys.

 

[Dove]

I don't see how she can call it that.
If she couldn't come to you and say she wasn't interested then she sure isn't the one for you. Things have really changed over the years. I would have taken that as a complement and then said " I'm doing fine in my relationship so I'm not interested" and then let it go.
Prayers are being sent your way,don't stress on it until you talk to your boss. It still might be ok.
Marge

 

[htc]

Sushi, I'm so sorry to hear that. It's too bad she didn't try to talk to you first... Good luck.

 

[amber]

Sorry this happened to you. Like Marge said, how can a person call that harrassment? What ever happened to saying no Im not interested and am perfectly happy with this man. I would have considered it a compliment, assuming you didnt say anything bad.

 

[Sandyj]

Maybe MIL to be noticed something?

 

[kitchenelf]

She's on a very thin piece of thread sush - did she tell you "stop it"?

 

[-DEADLY SUSHI-]

No Elf. She didnt. I never got a hint or clue. I lent her my dvd of Anne of Green Gables. She didnt say thank you or 'no i dont want it'. She didnt say anything. And thats when I figured something might be up. ANd I agree with Dove. WHY cant she have said something earlier?!

 

[Countryhb]

Maybe she doesn't like you because you own a copy of Anne of Green Gables...sorry, just trying to throw a little light on a dark situation.

 

[msalper]

DS, I have just read all the posts. I'm so sorry ... But I really can't understand her way of behaviour. Don't worry about your job. People like you have always better jobs and friends and lives. You are what you feel. You did what you felt and the right thing... You won't lose anything....

 

[SierraCook]

Sushi, working for the government I have been to many ***ual harassment trainings. Sigh!! What you did does not sound like ***ual harassment to me. I would just play it cool. Don't have any contact with her, except in a professional manner. It also could not hurt to make sure that another person is around when you have any contact with her. You cannot just be fired without some proof. If she had told you no and you continued then it would be harassment. It might not hurt to pay a visit to your human resource specialist, if your company has one. Sushi, I am sorry to hear that things have turned out this way.

 

[mudbug]

This is why I always tried to veer away from any tempting office romances. Too many potential minefields at a place I had to go to every day.

 

[crewsk]

Sushi, I'm so sorry things have taken this turn. My thoughts & prayers will be with you as you go into work tomorrow & through your day. If you need to vent, you can always PM me. I may not have answers but I'll gladly listen!

 

[KAYLINDA]

Perhaps her mother-in-law is a member of this site! Or...someone who knows her? At least if it gets too bad....you have the posting here....dated....and it proves your intentions were honest and loving....not s.....harrassing. Good luck! I wish you the best.

 

[mrsmac]

Good thoughts to you as you face work today Sushi.

 

[-DEADLY SUSHI-]

Nothing happened today. And she was NOT there. I also remembered she gave me her cell phone number! She put it on MY cell phone! HA! Interesting huh?

 

[texasgirl]

Nothing happened today. And she was NOT there. I also remembered she gave me her cell phone number! She put it on MY cell phone! HA! Interesting huh?

Keep that for future reference if they should keep this bs up, Sush!!
I'm glad that you didn't lose your job too! Good luck and keep us updated.

 

[pdswife]

Sushi, I'll keep
you in my prayers tonight.
I'm positive everything will work
out for you.

 

[-DEADLY SUSHI-]

Thank You!!!!!!! REAL prayers do affect us all. Thank you for your thoughts and well wishes. This has been a slap in my face.