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Old 01-09-2007, 12:38 PM   #11
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Me too Vera. I ran through all those scenarios and all I could come up with was the implication of the sentence rather than the actual construction. Cool question. Wonder where Miss mudbug is? She will want to weigh in on this one.
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Old 01-09-2007, 01:41 PM   #12
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You're not the uncle of me.
You're not the garbage man of me.
You're not the friend of me.

Hmmm. I think it's just a standard word order issue. After all, they all make perfect sense and would be understandable by any speaker. It's this sort of thing that separate the natives from the foreigners!

(I just gave away my copy of the book that would have given us the answer here ("Practical English Usage" by Michael Swan, a teachers' reference that is wonderful and answers just this sort of weird question ...) and wouldn't you know, this is the FIFTH time I've wanted it since I gave it away. Gotta get another copy!)

Sorry, GB. Bottom line is that I'm no help.
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Old 01-09-2007, 03:11 PM   #13
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I believe it's because you are not supposed to end a sentence with a preposition (of, to, from, with...). I think. And I should know--it's a sad statement but I was an English major in college, received my degree with highest honors, and never once did I have to take a grammar course. In fact, the longest term paper I had to write was 10 pages!

Anyway, that's the only reason I can think of. Or is it of which I can think??!
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Old 01-09-2007, 03:17 PM   #14
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But the sentence does not end in a preposition. The last word is me.

On a side not, my cousin, who is a magazine editor, recently told me that the rule about ending a sentence in a preposition is not longer true. There was another part of the rule now, but I have since forgotten it. I found that really interesting and helpful since I do like to end in preps sometimes
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Old 01-09-2007, 03:26 PM   #15
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But the sentence does not end in a preposition. The last word is me.
Prepositional phrase ("of me"). Sorry.

I agree with your cousin. A lot of grammar rules are being revised. With email and the internet, conversational English is a lot more accepted in formal settings and in writing now.
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Old 01-09-2007, 03:29 PM   #16
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Language used to bore me, but I am really starting to find it fascinating!
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Old 01-09-2007, 04:18 PM   #17
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Language used to bore me, but I am really starting to find it fascinating!
Indeed, I find language, especially the written missive, fascinating. Claiming even the slightest grip of the language is much more than most can claim. Composition is truly a lost art of this century.
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Old 01-09-2007, 04:24 PM   #18
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'tis fascinating indeed, geebs.

"You are not the boss of me" is kind of grammatically correct, although awkward. Look at Ayrton's examples. "You are not the boss of her/him" has the same construction but sounds more likely to the ear. Usually we would say "not my/her/his boss" but also would say "not the boss of Alix/this department/the universe." There's probably a rule about using the pronouns (me, her, him) vs. the nouns (Alix, geebs, department, universe) but I've forgotten it.

You can end sentences with prepositional phrases. In fact, Winston Churchill came up with a beaut in response to that outdated rule: "That is a *** (not sure he actually used the word "rule") up with which I will not put."

We do it all the time:
When did you get in?
Who let the dogs out?
What's up?
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Old 01-09-2007, 04:31 PM   #19
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It's almost like an active/passive voice kind of difference.
eg: I bought the farm/the farm was bought by me.

"You are not the boss of me" is a slightly stronger construction than the other because of the position of "me". In the spoken word the most emphasis is gained by putting the important word at te end of the sentence.

Also, I agree with PA Baker; a prepostion is a bad thing to end a sentence with.
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Old 01-09-2007, 04:37 PM   #20
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Buck, I try to teach my engineers about the difference between active/passive voice as follows:
Active - the cow jumped over the moon
Passive - the moon was jumped over by the cow.

and the classic use of passive voice for when nobody wants to admit anything:
Mistakes were made.
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