kadesma, here is a recipe that I posted awhile back using ham. Ham patties would be soft enough for Carson and the other kids will like them, too.
2 cups ground cooked ham
½ cup soft bread crumbs
¼ cup chopped green onion
1/3 cup milk
1 slightly beaten egg
Dash of pepper
Combine all ingredients and shape into 4 patties. Brown patties slowly in a small amount of oil. Serves 4. This recipe can be easily doubled and is great for using leftover ham.
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