As you get a little older, your perceived "needs" become "less", and the "needs" of you children become "more"...and "I guess", by the time you have grandchildren the "outpouring" of cash at Christmas gets pretty heavy...
Donald Trump and Bill Gates are veryu different individuals...Trump is off "marrying" the next starlet/harlot and in our collective faces with "The Apprentice" to show off his alleged "icy" textures as a person...
Bill Gates has built an obscene "mansion" for his family, but is spending a good part of his wealth in educating the third world and providing them with, well, okay" Windows products" to get it done with...and swears his kids will not inherit this massive wealth...
Me?
I'm not hurting regularly, and carefully manage what we have to "put away" until the day we need it...but I am by no means adverse to "tipping the waitress and/or the cook", for a good meal at a restaurant...
And will very "coldly" calculate the costs of our family's Christmas celebrations, and contribute in "like amount" to the Salvation Army's program for the homeless and helpless at Christmas...is we have to "do without" the lobster tails on Christmas Eve as a result, I hope and believe that there may be some individuals and/or families that advance in their pleasure of what more I might give into the program...
If seeing your family, gloriously eating well, and enjoying the company and tradition, albeit at one's own expense, then literally nothing will make you happier than being a "secret Santa" for people you do not know, and the Sally Ann's trooping up to their doors on Christmas Eve with the oh-so needed stocking stuffers, the presents that are aimed at true need, and the dinner...with no regard to race or religion...
Its pretty much a "present" to yourself...made that much more enjoyable if you ever volunteer to go out and assist with the distribution...the "delight" on the parents's faces, that their kids are going to be "absolutely delighted on Christmas Morn" just goes off in your head...
"who should give"?
"Those who can"
Lifter