Weird, Luvs, we obviously don't know enough about your lifestyle. We eat in the kitchen most of the time, but any real effort to put out a special meal rates the dining room, which is DH's favorite room in the house. Our old (1854) house has this really odd dining room that is very FLW-ish -- low ceiling, stone wall built in side board -- so we furnished it with craftsman furniture. Only lighting fixture is a -- good greif, I can't spell the word -- wroght? wraught? rot? (I know none are right, what's wrong with me this morning?) iron candelabra with real candles. We love it and eat there at the drop of a hat, and it's a favorite neighborhood gathering place. People used to hang out in my kitchen in other houses, now it's around my dining room table; one of the least used rooms in most houses! Keeps me hopping looking for 6-8 inch, unscented, dripless candles. Occaisionally we go through a spate of what Mom used to call "eating around" -- eating in the 'back parlor' (our family room, so-to-speak). If we're eating pizza or nuking leftovers, if it's really hot (that room is coolest in our non-A/C house), if one of us is ill (last summer DH had a terrible bout of gout and arthritis).