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Old 09-18-2006, 09:12 PM   #1
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My Baby Boy's Birthday

Shane Michael Ray Kilhefner made his entrance into this world at 10:31 PM on September 18th, 1980 - 26 years ago. He left us by an accidental fall from his apt. balcony in the early morning hours of March 12, 2004. Happy Birthday, my beloved son. You were/are my pride & joy, the light of my life. I will love you & miss you as long as I live - you are always with me. This photo was one of the last pictures of Shane - taken about 6-8 months before he died. Please click on the photo to see the larger image of him.

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Old 09-18-2006, 09:17 PM   #2
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Happy birthday. Hugs to you.

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on. Robert Frost
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Old 09-18-2006, 09:17 PM   #3
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Happy Birthday Shane Michael Ray Kilhefner. You will not be forgotten.

"Count yourself...you ain't so many" - quote from Buck's Daddy
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Old 09-18-2006, 10:55 PM   #4
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Happy Birthday to your son. We share in your sadness.
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Old 09-18-2006, 11:01 PM   #5
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Bless you. We never expect to bury our children. That's not the way it's supposed to be. My prayers are with you. He'll always be in your heart as he was beneath your heart before he was born.

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Old 09-18-2006, 11:06 PM   #6
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happy birthday shane.

corinne, my heart is completely with you today. thank you for allowing us to be a part of your family.
Won't you please, please tell me what we've learned
I know it sounds absurd
Please tell me who I am
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Old 09-18-2006, 11:28 PM   #7
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Happy Birthday Shane!!... your spirit will live and shine on in the heart of your loving mamma and those of all the loved ones.

Try to keep your smile on on this special day Corinne... that is how your boy would like it to be!
(((Hugs))) and all my best wishes!!
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Old 09-18-2006, 11:49 PM   #8
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Happy Birthday Shane...
Thank you Corinne for sharing this special day with us...You are indeed family.

HEAVEN is Cade, Ethan,Carson, and Olivia,Alyssa,Gianna
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Old 09-18-2006, 11:51 PM   #9
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He is Gone
You can shed tears that he is gone, Or you can smile because he lived,
You can close your eyes and pray that he will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all that he has left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see him Or you can be full of the love that you shared,
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday, Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember him and only that he is gone Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on,
You can cry and close your mind be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what he would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
David Harkins

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Old 09-19-2006, 07:12 AM   #10
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Happy Birthday Shane!

Thank you for sharing your precious son with us. I pray that God will comfort you.

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