If hubby wants you to do all the cooking, he does the clean up, right?
I agree. But it is far to often the wife does both, along with running a household all by herself.
I know this to be true as I am a man and know plenty other men who feel anything needed to be done inside is woman's work and anything outside is mans work.
I knew a guy once that if he caught his wife on the riding mower, he would chastise her and tell her to get back in the house. That there were many other thing she should be doing.
Wishing gets you no where.
Girl, that man needs some training
Or maybe she should just clam up if you get the picture and quit cooking and cleaning until he wakes up and realizes its not a one way street. It takes two people working together to make it work.
MY SIL is being treated like a POS. She is always crying as her husband is always causing her grief.
She has worked in high paying jobs and took care of him financially for over 20 years. He sits/lays down at home all day long and is on disability.
He has never in his life pushed a vacuum or attempted to make a meal even for himself. He has been coddled and taken care of with luxurious vacations at least twice per year.
He ruins those vacations for his wife, my SIL. He is jealous and very mean.
Now she is sick. Very sick and cannot work. He is on her case about no money coming in. He is used to living in luxury. I think she made about $5000 a week in her last job and has made 6 figures for as long as I can remember.
He is treating her worse now than ever.
She looks like hell. You can tell shes been crying every time I see her.
I told her to quit doing his laundry, quit cooking his meals and quit doing the housework. This will eventually force him out. (he always says he's leaving but never does) packs up and everything.
If she would grow some balls, he could be out of her life. I guess she likes being treated like this.
