I need to respond to this:
Yes there is no excuse, but if some parents had more time at home they could cook more meals from scratch.
I have a 2 year old, and a Bernese Mountain Dog puppy. (for those of you who are not familiar with the breed, they are BIG and ACTIVE.
I work between 45-50 hours a week.
My husband has recently(3 months ago) started a new job where he works long late hours, (often 2pm- 5am). When I get home from work I go for a run with the dog to tire her out, (and also because I eat a a lot and need to watch my weight
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Every single meal I cook is from scratch. It takes tremendous effort, I cook long hours in advance on the weekends, but it is absolutely worth it, as a mother, and a foodie.
I am proud of this as you can tell, but I also acknowledge that not every parent is able to do this. Parenting is a hard road, we all do our best at it.
As an aside, sometime my husband notices that our neighbours decorate their house more elaborately for Christmas, or I get "feedback" from my in-laws, that I am a bad mother because I didn't hire a dog and pony show, Bozo the clown, or Cirque de Soleil for my daughter's 2nd birthday. I always say to my husband: "Plenty of people have an elaborate birthday party and go into debt buying huge amounts of toys and other stuff all year around, but feed their kids McDonalds 3 nights a week. We are different, less toys, more healthy food and eating habits."
After that lecture, he always calms down and ignores what the "Jones'" are doing!
(Ok, sorry about the tirade, but healthy eating for kids is a real sore point with me. )
Thanks for listening/reading....