It took me a while to find this, with some help.
For all the newbies that don't know about it yet, you might
find this very helpful. I don't go searching for posts that are new anymore.
above this thread there is a dark blue strip that lists Home, Member photos, etc....
If you click on "New Posts" it will show you all the new posts that you have not seen. They stay on there for a while before refreshing. One of the site helpers can say how long they stay if no replies have been added in a while.