A friend of mine, a big foodie, gave me a recipe for cornbread that is, by far, the best and is truly Southern plus, as someone has already mentioned, southerners do not put sugar in their cornbread. Taboo, for sure.
The creator of this recipe is a lady called Edna Lewis and has my respect for the best cornbread I've ever made/eaten.
Here's a link to it:
https://www.thekitchn.com/corn-bread-edna-lewis-23099603
Plus, here's a little tidbit about the lady herself:
Edna Lewis’ cornbread recipe is included in her “Morning-After-Hog-Butchering Breakfast” menu in ‘The Taste of Country Cooking’. “Hog killing was one of the special events of the year and generally took place in December,” she writes in the introduction. Other recipes in the menu include oven-cooked fresh bacon, country-fried apples, wild strawberry preserves, and plenty of coffee.