Shining Wizard
Head Chef
Crab is from memory the first thing that I caught and ate all by myself. The very meaning of sustainable
Tuna casserole (or mornay) is one of the cheap and cheerful meals my mother used to make.
Canned tuna, macaroni, white sauce and parsley.
I was just saying what my OH and I do here and your right - "money doesn't make something better" what so everthrowing money at the same food doesn’t make them any better, IMO
I bet she loved it, though, and I am sure you put a good bit of love into making it!Isn’t it what is hoped by your parents though?
I made ten times what my father made.
I made my mother a tuna morney using wild caught fish, hand made pasta and a sauce with premium ingredients.
Was it better?
Perhaps. But the love? No.
My mother made our meals with what she had and throwing money at the same food doesn’t make them any better, IMO
I grew up in a small fishing village in Florida on the Gulf of Mexico (they tried to rename it the Gulf of America but I am not buying that, LOL) that is now a resort destination. My dad took me fishing and crabbing pretty regularly. Great memories.Crab is from memory the first thing that I caught and ate all by myself. The very meaning of sustainable
I was going to as well - but when I saw the price I said - forget it!Gulf of Mexico (they tried to rename it the Gulf of America but I am not buying that,
I think parents tend to like whatever their kids make them - I think for them it is more about the thought than the actual food...@Jusa that is what it’s all about.
And my mother loved my tuna mornay. I was just thinking about how fancy I could be, because I am chef, ya know??
But none of that matters
When she passed away some months later, nothing mattered
It's true. The year before my mom passed away she was raving about my crabmeat stuffed grouper to someone, so I went out bought everything the next day and made it for her. She didn't eat much of it because towards the end of her life she just didn't have much appetite, you know? But she loved it and appreciated it because I did that for her. It could have been tuna casserole and she would have loved it just as much I think!I think parents tend to like whatever their kids make them - I think for them it is more about the thought than the actual food...
I miss my folks, my aunts and uncles and brothers and cousins and all. Because the longer you live, the more people you will say goodbye to. I guess it’s just life.
I think that talking about them honors their lives, so yes, it's sad but not necessarily dark, you know what I mean?Not intentionally @Shining Wizard
That is a sad fact of life - I also lost my mom and then my little sister 2 years later. You never think it will happen ..........