My DIL's mom is having our whole gang over, again. She's a saint. It's me, my ex, my son and her daughter, my other son and his girlfriend, 2 more grandmothers, her son and her husband .... and of course her. Plus our 18 mo granddaughter.
Since I moved south, I really feel badly that I can't help. Luckily she loves to cook as much as I do + she even looks like Martha Stewart.
Mr HB and his dad are going to Alabama to have T'day with his DIL, her husband, 2 grandboys, Mr HB's ex and her husband.
We are blessed that all of us Ex's get along very well.