I only go there when a family member tells me by email or phone there are new pics of the grandkids. I just can't put my private business out there. And I refuse to put the names of my family out there. That is their choice to do so. Not mine. I really try to respect the privacy of others.
There is a group of friends of mine. Seven of us all together. We have met all over the country. Calif., Tenn., Georgia, Mass., La., etc. Not once have I ever typed their real name in an email, or addressing them. I have never even asked their permission to do so. I wouldn't have the audcaity to do so. As a result of my respect for their privacy, somehow I became secretary to this group. I know all their anniversaries, birthdays, kids names, birthdays, and everything else. Even their private phone numbers at work. Every so often one of them will want to send a card to another and will ask me for their address. That is all I send them. The info of that one person. And no more.
There is a member here that I have had dinner with. And I would never violate her privacy. BTW, she is a lovely and very intelligent person. I really ejoyed her company.