Chinese food require the chef to cook food not only delicious but also smell and look good. We call it look good, smell good and taste good. Your food may smell and taste good but looks ugly. The first one have too much white things on that make people uncomfortable. The second one is too small...
If she's really your good friend you should just tell her directly cause it's benefits for her and she must appreciate you although she don't accept your opinion. Actually and advise will influence the action of one person. Just told her those are bad habits. I promise she will not blame you.
Charlie Sheen
But how to make sure the name will not be repeated when there have a large amount of posts? It't impossible to read all names post before.