Sushi, if you look back on your first post: you said that she told you she was unhappy in her engagement, that she was "23 and still not jaded towards men". When she said she was unhappy, she was telling you she was open to someone else. Then, when she reacted badly to your little gift, she was smacking you for your acceptance of her invitation. This is a power trip. Treat her as she deserves...As if she is not on the planet. Hold your head high, Sushi, and travel on. You are not a victim...You are a quality guy who is leaving a little manipulator behind. Your redhead is still out there somewhere! The girl? Well, she deserves the stripper and nothing more. They can have each other. Good riddance.