CakePoet, I think all of us try to accommodate the food likes and needs of guests. However, from the little bit of information that the elusive Ada gave us, her extra body at the dinner table isn't so much a guest as a long-term boarder. If I had someone moving into my house and eating at my table for four years, I would expect that they would either eat the same foods I make for my family, within reason, or fix their own "special" diet. I would go nuts cooking two different meals over the course of 1461 consecutive dinners!