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Old 09-13-2005, 08:03 AM   #1
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Counting your blessings!

This was forwarded to me via email. Thought I'd share.

A great note for all to read. It will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking.

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation. Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a lovely l ake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene. One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.

Days and weeks passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the sw itch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

Epilogue: There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations. Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled. If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.

"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present."

People will forget what you said...

People will forget what you did...

But people will never forget how you made them


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Old 09-13-2005, 08:35 AM   #2
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What a beautiful story.....thanks for sharing! I personally feel better when I'm helping someone else......it does help me with the burden in my own life.

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Old 09-13-2005, 10:02 AM   #3
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Thanks, chopstix. That's very lovely and a good lesson to remember!
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Old 09-13-2005, 11:56 AM   #4
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thank you for sharing that
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Old 09-13-2005, 12:34 PM   #5
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A great story to wake up too. Thank you for the reminder.
In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on. Robert Frost
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Old 09-13-2005, 03:49 PM   #6
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Yes Indeed, This Is A Good One! Thank You!
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Old 09-13-2005, 03:58 PM   #7
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That was really lovely and a good thing to read as I start my day.
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Old 09-13-2005, 06:03 PM   #8
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I had read this before and loved it too...thanks for taking the time to post it!

You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you can't close your heart to the things you do not want to feel.
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