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Old 08-21-2005, 01:02 PM   #51
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DS, I have just read all the posts. I'm so sorry ... But I really can't understand her way of behaviour. Don't worry about your job. People like you have always better jobs and friends and lives. You are what you feel. You did what you felt and the right thing... You won't lose anything....
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Old 08-21-2005, 03:36 PM   #52
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Sushi, working for the government I have been to many ***ual harassment trainings. Sigh!! What you did does not sound like ***ual harassment to me. I would just play it cool. Don't have any contact with her, except in a professional manner. It also could not hurt to make sure that another person is around when you have any contact with her. You cannot just be fired without some proof. If she had told you no and you continued then it would be harassment. It might not hurt to pay a visit to your human resource specialist, if your company has one. Sushi, I am sorry to hear that things have turned out this way.
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Old 08-21-2005, 03:47 PM   #53
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This is why I always tried to veer away from any tempting office romances. Too many potential minefields at a place I had to go to every day.
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Old 08-21-2005, 09:18 PM   #54
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Sushi, I'm so sorry things have taken this turn. My thoughts & prayers will be with you as you go into work tomorrow & through your day. If you need to vent, you can always PM me. I may not have answers but I'll gladly listen!
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Old 08-21-2005, 09:31 PM   #55
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Perhaps her mother-in-law is a member of this site! Or...someone who knows her? At least if it gets too bad....you have the posting here....dated....and it proves your intentions were honest and loving....not s.....harrassing. Good luck! I wish you the best.
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Old 08-22-2005, 02:17 AM   #56
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Good thoughts to you as you face work today Sushi.
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Old 08-22-2005, 08:52 PM   #57
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Nothing happened today. And she was NOT there. I also remembered she gave me her cell phone number! She put it on MY cell phone! HA! Interesting huh?
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Old 08-22-2005, 08:59 PM   #58
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Nothing happened today. And she was NOT there. I also remembered she gave me her cell phone number! She put it on MY cell phone! HA! Interesting huh?
Keep that for future reference if they should keep this bs up, Sush!!
I'm glad that you didn't lose your job too! Good luck and keep us updated.
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Old 08-22-2005, 10:57 PM   #59
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Sushi, I'll keep
you in my prayers tonight.
I'm positive everything will work
out for you.
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Old 08-23-2005, 12:07 AM   #60
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Thank You!!!!!!! REAL prayers do affect us all. Thank you for your thoughts and well wishes. This has been a slap in my face.
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