There are the folks who do not have to be a working woman. They get to stay home and wait for their husbands paycheck on Thursday or Friday. I don't blame you for being rude.
When Pirate was a newborn infant, I went to work on a temporary basis. My husband had been hurt at work and was out for about six weeks. I deliberate took the second shift so my husband could keep any medical appointments he had and I could get some sleep after I sent the two oldest to school. Then I grabbed me a couple of more hours of sleep. I would shut the phone off, and ignored the door bell. My girlfriends finally got the message. Don't bother me. If it is important, write it down and you can tell me later when I get up and go to the school to get the kids. Meet me at the school gate.
When you don't have to work, you forget that those who do are on a tight schedule. Become rude if you have to. Hopefully they will get the hint, and if not, watch out. She is mad and is about to let you know!