Babe, that is wonderful news! I keep praying for both of you.
Looks like she is slowly getting better. Now you get to feel better and able to get along so you can go see her. I pray for you both each day. Be well babe.wally has made some strides toward getting well. she is breathing on her own a lot more. though trac. is still in and she is not eating food. swallow very weak. friday she got a hair cut and wash at the site she is at, according to daughter. i can't visit since i can't get a shoe on my right food yet. hopefully soon. i know i shouldn't be but keep waiting for the other shoe to drop.
wally has made some strides toward getting well. she is breathing on her own a lot more. though trac. is still in and she is not eating food. swallow very weak. friday she got a hair cut and wash at the site she is at, according to daughter. i can't visit since i can't get a shoe on my right food yet. hopefully soon. i know i shouldn't be but keep waiting for the other shoe to drop.
i am so sorry babe. i will keep you and your friend in my prayers.this is the last time i will post on this thread. hospital personal had a family meeting with doctors, nurses, her daughter and her brother on the phone in flo. the opinion is that even if she overcome the physical things, ie breathing on her own, and swallowing so she can eat. she has a feeding tube and only weights 84 pounds. she will never progress mentally. she has had a brain accident they say. i think they blew it and there are covering there collective butts. she can't be moved to a reg. nursing home until the swallows works.
i am heart broken . her daughter continues to be a idiot. i know she is in denial but the truth is the truth.
i thank you all for all your support during this long drawn out thread.
this is the last time i will post on this thread. hospital personal had a family meeting with doctors, nurses, her daughter and her brother on the phone in flo. the opinion is that even if she overcome the physical things, ie breathing on her own, and swallowing so she can eat. she has a feeding tube and only weights 84 pounds. she will never progress mentally. she has had a brain accident they say. i think they blew it and there are covering there collective butts. she can't be moved to a reg. nursing home until the swallows works.
i am heart broken . her daughter continues to be a idiot. i know she is in denial but the truth is the truth.
i thank you all for all your support during this long drawn out thread.
she is down to five cats, had one old on put to sleep. she is trying to give three away and just have two. says she can't afford it. she has the use of wallies money, but that is her choice. if wallie had any savings they are gone now.
i will miss wallie more than i can tell you. 46 years is a long time for a friendship.
thanks to all for good wishes.
this is the last time i will post on this thread. hospital personal had a family meeting with doctors, nurses, her daughter and her brother on the phone in flo. the opinion is that even if she overcome the physical things, ie breathing on her own, and swallowing so she can eat. she has a feeding tube and only weights 84 pounds. she will never progress mentally. she has had a brain accident they say. i think they blew it and there are covering there collective butts. she can't be moved to a reg. nursing home until the swallows works.
i am heart broken . her daughter continues to be a idiot. i know she is in denial but the truth is the truth.
i thank you all for all your support during this long drawn out thread.
thanks june. the hospital has completed it's job to write my friend off. with the brain injury they caused and now the drugs they are giving her, she is reduced to a vegetable.
she doesn't know anyone, including her daughter. i am resigned that i will never see my friend again. everything reminds me of her. my wind chimes were a gift from her so when i hear them, i think of her. she gave me a hummingbird feeder for my birthday. such a thoughtful person. when i bake cupcakes i think of her. she gave me the silicone pans. .
pray that wallie will go peacefully , she might as well be dead, in the condition she is in. there is not hope it will ever get better.