My brother will have ketchup (Made with tomatoes), spaghetti, lasagne (made with tomatoe sauce), chili (made with crushed tomatoes) but won't eat a raw tomato! Me, I can't eat raw onions but anyway they are cooked or added to a recipe they are fine and in some cases even desired.
DH is the same wasy w/ tomato....
NO raw tomatoes....
not even large cooked ones... say if you put sliced tomato on a pizza or bruschetta.... he wont eat it.
But I leave chunks in my spaghetti sauce and chili and he's fine with it.
I think that's even wierder than my cheese issue.