luvs, I learned long ago too, say no and knock it off..I don't let anyone get to me. If they do, I just keep quiet and ignore it.Don't let em bug ya
There are times it bothers me when someone is hurting and won't respond to offers of help.I try not to criticise I could be in worse shape and need to just vent...They are not asking for our opinions really or how we would handle the situation. They just need someone to quietly listen, offer a be well and take care.....If we can't do that, in my case, I just read the post and not say anything. Believe me it saves a lot of anguish for all of us.
kades, i trust your advice, since i adore your dear self, i agree, though i'm with a temper & hafta WORK not to reply to remarks from silly people. even if i knoooooowwwwwwwwwww to ignore them, my temprament oftentakes the lead role. thanks for reading between the lines, luv.
Sweetie, you've never seen me when I get really angry,it took hard work to learn to be still but I can do it now and feel happy with myself for learning control. If I can, you can
And I know you will.
luvs, I never stomp, I just throw things..My guys are great at duckinglol, kades, since you're quite the cook, i can just SEE food flung about the room as you shout & stomp.
Laurie, how to describe to grieve? Do you find it hard to stay focused on what your doing? Are you restless? Do you say to your self I should have visited more? Why didn't I? Do you suddenly start to cry over a song you hear or cry at a card long forgotten?? To me that is grieving. You grieve with each memory and the longing that comes with old memories.We really can't identify those feeling at first, but they will lessen as time goes on, then you don't feel guilty, you lift your friend up in spirit. She will know.. You would never have to apologize to me nor should you to friends..Your love is a better gift.How lucky we are to call you friend.
