mikki
Sous Chef
I know I don't get on this site or post much anymore, but I still think of you guys as family. I needed to talk and this is the first place I could think of. You see my husbands good friend killed himself yesterday.Pauly had hurt his back 6 months ago thats when he found out he had what they called bamboo spine, his spine was fusing together and causing great pain. Then a month ago he found out he had cancer.
His wife found him and my husband is feeling really guilty. Pauly's wife called my hubby and asked if he had heard from him then asked if he might know where he could be, hubby told her that Pauly told him that he started walking at a nearby asphalt plant so my hubby told her how to get there.
My husband was working nearby when they saw a cop go flying by he turned down the road where the plant so my husbands crew boss (Pauly worked with them also) said lets go. They got there saw Pauly's truck out back and his wife running hysterical towards them.
I'm trying to be there for him it just seems like everything I say sounds stupid. I told him there was nothing that he could have done, and that it sounded like the phone call the other night was his way of saying goodbye. I think when he called my hubby the other night he had already made his mind up, he just didn't let on.
Anyway, I just needed to get all this out. Thanks for listening
His wife found him and my husband is feeling really guilty. Pauly's wife called my hubby and asked if he had heard from him then asked if he might know where he could be, hubby told her that Pauly told him that he started walking at a nearby asphalt plant so my hubby told her how to get there.
My husband was working nearby when they saw a cop go flying by he turned down the road where the plant so my husbands crew boss (Pauly worked with them also) said lets go. They got there saw Pauly's truck out back and his wife running hysterical towards them.
I'm trying to be there for him it just seems like everything I say sounds stupid. I told him there was nothing that he could have done, and that it sounded like the phone call the other night was his way of saying goodbye. I think when he called my hubby the other night he had already made his mind up, he just didn't let on.
Anyway, I just needed to get all this out. Thanks for listening