Being a Grandparent isn't as rewarding for me as being a father was, simply because all of my my children have had to move away to find jobs, and take their kids with them. When I have the opportunity to be with them, I will babysit any time I can, and play with the young'ens, or sing with them, or read to them. I will design paper airplanes, or kites, with them. I will teach them to make my pancakes, or fry a pork chop, whatever I'm allowed to do.
Doing things for and with my kids, and my grandkids is a blessing beyond measure. They aren't an imposition. They are a big part of my purpose in life. In my opinion, if you find children and grandchildren as something that get in you way, then you shouldn't have children.
The service of others, giving love and effort, is more rewarding than any other thing a person can do in this world. This is true for me, even though I've had and taken the opportunity to live in both worlds, one where it was all about me, and one where it's all about my family.
the one that was all about me was after I'd struck out on my own as a young adult, and before I got married. In that short time I got to be a passenger in a navy jet, where the pilot did aerial acrobatics. I got to scuba, climb a mountain, lots of dirt biking, running with friends, softball, learning advanced electronic theory and troubleshooting, and the list goes on and on.
Though those things were exciting, they paled in comparison to holding my baby children, helping them learn to ride bicycles, teaching them how to tie proper knots, teaching them to safely use a canoe, to make cookies without a recipe, guiding them with their science projects, and everything else that goes with being a dad.
The tag line at the bottom of my posts says it all for me. It is my favorite quote ever.
Our families should be more important to us than any other thing we can do or accomplish. I don't believe that what I have just said is an opinion, I believe it's a fundamental fact of life in this world.
Being a grandpa is bittersweet. I have to step back and allow my kids to be the dads and moms, to have the same blessings I enjoyed raising them. I still get to teach the grandkids, and guide them. But my job now is to reinforce and support the actions of my own children in the role of parent. They're good at it, and they make me very proud.
Seeeeeeya; Chief Longwind of the North