expatgirl
Master Chef
Go! Girl--we're behind you!!!!
Mikki, you know how some people are brighter^^^^^than others? Some spouses are less sensitive than others. Dave is right here. You should be asking for help from a much stronger source than the one you're married to. Your husband is not being supportive right now, but there is One Who will be. You need pats on the back, encouragement, a sensitive ear to listen to you in times of need, a soft place to fall, and the time for that is now. You don't seem to be getting that so go out on a limb here and be firm with that man that keeps putting you down.Mikki I am male and a sensitive one at that. Boot you insensitive husband where it would hurt the worst.. Then tell him up front to knock off the negative nonsense and start being supportive or show him the door. You do not kneed this aggravation at this time in your life. G d works in strange ways at times and I have faith that the Master is looking out for you. He has helped me numerous times. I am a fully trained Chef and when I had to I worked as a cleaner of bathrooms just to survive But a new door will open
It is always darkest just before the dawn so hang in. QUIT TAKING RUBISH FROM YOUR HUSBAND. It is hard but ask G D for help and think positive.
LEFSE-As per your advice,I had a good long talk with a good neighbor who teaches religous education.Has offered to get together with me once a week and "talk".
Its amazing what difference a day makes. Got up this morning and oneof my good friends from work (who also knows husband and how he is) called to see how I was doing,of course broke down to him. Told him everything I was feeling, told me he promised to call at least once a week,so I didn't feel alone. Gave me the extra boost for job hunting today. Put in lots of applications,with a big on my face. I'm hopeful someone will call.
Good for you Mikki you got in a solid productive day.Try to stay positive Im really glad you have some people at home to talk to as well.As for BH ignore him the best you can, tune him out if you can.Rest easy now, as you did real every thing you could possibly do today.LEFSE-As per your advice,I had a good long talk with a good neighbor who teaches religous education.Has offered to get together with me once a week and "talk".
Its amazing what difference a day makes. Got up this morning and oneof my good friends from work (who also knows husband and how he is) called to see how I was doing,of course broke down to him. Told him everything I was feeling, told me he promised to call at least once a week,so I didn't feel alone. Gave me the extra boost for job hunting today. Put in lots of applications,with a big on my face. I'm hopeful someone will call.